There is no exact definition for normal sexual life. Everybody has its own sexual life that is determined by personal preferences. Frequency varies from several times a week to several times a year.
Sex not necessarily means sexual intercourse. It is not necessarily felling the onset of orgasm in each partner. In fact, any person can have periods of sex cool down.There is no common sex standard, so sometimes it is difficult to say if the couple has sexual problems or not.
There are particular signs which help you to find out if you have sexual problems:
- the problem occurs permanently or it repeats quite often at length
- the problems causes stress – it makes man feel upset and greatly worries him
- the problem results in difficulties in the relationship and breaks down chemistry with sexual partner
Another difficulty is that sexual disorder is caused not just by one factor, it may be caused by the complex of physiological and psychological factors. Normal sexual function means passing through all sex stages:
1. Excitement
2. Blood flush into genitalia (erection in men, lubricant exudation and genitalia increase in women)
3. Orgasm
4. Feeling of satisfaction and satiation
Breakdown can occur on any stage of this cycle and it can be caused by a number of factors. Finally it results in sexual disorders.
The role of bad habits and diseases
Sexual disorders can be caused by the next factors:
- diabetes
- cardiovascular diseases
- neurological diseases (insult, brain injury and spinal cord trauma, multiple sclerosis)
- trauma or operation on pelvic organs
- side effects of drugs
- chronic diseases (kidney failure, hepatic failure)
- endocrine profile disorders
- drinking and taking drugs
- smoking
- aging changes
- stress on the work
- anxiety about problems in the family or with friends
- mental disorders (depression, anxiety)
- past unsuccessful sex
If it was detected one of these problems then it may be removed by the doctor. Otherwise the relationship in the couple must be analyzed. Sexual disorder may appear just in a certain situation. It means that problem exists just in one partner in a certain situation. In this case both partners should consult psychologist.
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