In the initial period of the intimate relationship or marriage, about the monotony of the question was not. Mutual attraction and impatience were forced to have sex in a variety of settings and with all possible variety of poses and techniques. But over time, something that was new, it has become commonplace, and even boring.
► Reason
Sexual partners are getting used to each other. This is entirely natural and in many ways is good, because it provides comfort in sexual relationships. However, as noted by psychologists, the habit of the constant presence of each other leads to the fact that the mutual interest and attention fade down to the fact that the spouses can not even feel the need to talk to.
The fact that the familiar and routine, including sex becomes boring. A person does not tend to keep the attention on something for a long time. Variety is necessary in all aspects of life - for work, for food, and, of course, sex.
► Did you know?
Why is it difficult for a long time remain faithful to the same sexual partner? The fact there are biological reasons. Over millions of years of evolution of the human species developed a penchant for sexual variety, which is part of the successful strategy of reproduction. The human being is not intended by nature limited to one sexual partner, so that sexual boredom, conjugate with monogamy, it is quite reasonable.
Multiple sex better ensure the preservation and multiplication of genes in the progeny of a given individual, it is ultimately the goal of reproductive behavior. But that does not mean that a person a slave to his genes. Is inherent in the people to unite in pairs, even in cultures where traditional multiple sexual contacts.
Long-term success and, therefore, happy sexual relationship - a complex physiological task, however, it is solved.
► How serious
Sometimes you just have to realize that you have been routine. The man often afraid to admit it and thinks with himself something wrong or that the recognition in the habit of traumatic sexual partner.
► Solutions
Take the first step. Do not assume in advance that your partner does not want to think about how to break the monotony of the relationship. If you get bored, then, most likely, and it, too. Are not boring people themselves, and the relationship between them. If you have a good idea is born, your partner is likely to support it.
Play by the rules. Introduction Comic rules - a wonderful way to make a spicy sex life. Announce that today "Night of the Three Positions," or "Night Bust" or "Night of Sex Standing." Anything you like - as long as it winds you and your partner. Boredom is the law. Coming up with rules that ban the habitual posture. For example, a three-month ban traditional "missionary posture. Or a week disable themselves having sex in bed. This will not restrict your sex life, but instead will discover new and exciting opportunities.
Conquer over. Re-test with a regular sexual partner of the effect of the first meeting. Behave as in the days of the start of your acquaintance. Seduce her! However, for such a role-playing game is imperative voluntary and ownership partner.
► Alternative Approaches
Erotic movies. They will help to awaken the imagination of partners to each other and to breathe new life into sex. But only if you both do not have anything against it. By no means all women like to watch these movies.
For those who agree, you should choose a film with a meaningful story, not devoid of romanticism, the rough pornography without a hint of feelings can have an effect opposite to the desired.
► Adult toys.
Try the special adaptations of the store intimate accessories such as vibrators for women. Their selection is great, so visit the store together with partner-Perches. Men will help ring, wear pas base of the penis which prevents the outflow of blood and maintain an erection.
The ring should not be worn for more than 30 consecutive minutes pas can stop blood flow to the penis and cause damage to tissues.
► Prevention
Sex should be a priority. One of the saddest consequences of the intense rhythm of modern life that many put off sex "for later". You work, it works, and you have children. So if the usual time for sex occurs late at night, after exhausting daily worries, success is unlikely, and therefore, the interest will fade. How can I enjoy sex when you are not able to enjoy anything?
Be sure to allocate time for sex. Choose the right time to nothing to prevent you.
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